Thursday, March 30, 2006
I have deleted two of my previous posts due to "some" complications due my ignorance..if u really want to know the reason, ask me in person =P its a secret too "big" to be shared online. Haha=)
So, to make up and atone for the missing posts, i decided to write something about LOVE!
To me, i have never really know what it is like to be in love. I mean i love my parents and my family. But loving someone else whom is not in your family is completely different. The closest i ever get to know how it felt was through reading love stories with amazingly happy endings. Or watch some romance movie with Happy endings. Or watch drama series on television yet again with HAPPY endings. I'm not saying every movie out there tells us of happy endings, but MOST of them are. Isnt it funny? Painting lovely pictures which do not reflect reality.
Happy endings. We all love happy endings dont we? It leaves us with this warm fuzzy feeling all over. Smiling at the thought of being happy. I admit it, i love happy endings. Even when i read a comic with a happy ending, i'll be smiling. I enjoy watching movies where a man goes through thick and thin, from being a guy who doesnt know who he likes, to becoming a great man who finally gets the girl of his dreams and they all live happily in the end. I love it.
But, we all know that life is not a bed of roses. It is not as nice or as perfect as we all would like it to be. I think every girl knows that there is no perfect man, but we still keep that thought. We hope to find that "perfect" one and dream about it. However, it never comes, and so, we settle for someone "lesser".
I used to be like that. But now i know that a relationship is actually a compromise between two diff ppl. We both have to give sometimes. We must learn to be patient to one another. Controlling temper is another important thing. but in the end, it is still worth the effort. The happiness you gain is real =)
There is only one happiness in life,to love and be loved.- George Sand -
meows by WenYi at 2:41 PM